A broken heart but still love anyway.

I don’t really like the phrase, “a broken heart.” If our hearts were to break, we’d be dead — something many would welcome as a relief from the soul-crushing pain they’re actually experiencing.

The truth is, when you get your heart broken, nothing truly breaks — nothing physical and (almost always) nothing psychological — but it feels like we’ve been broken somewhere on the inside.

The truth is nothing has broken. We’ve simply detached ourselves from the world we thought we knew and found ourselves in a separate version of reality.

And it hurts.

When you’re in love, you lay the foundation on a set of beliefs — all of which are built on trust. These beliefs become your reality, your world. Everything you do and think and plan for relies on the beliefs you’ve set up for yourself.

When we feel our hearts breaking, we’re just realizing the realities we thought existed — and all the things we took as truths — were nothing more than fantasy.

We were lied to, deceived, insulted and left to fend for ourselves in a reality we don’t yet fully comprehend.

Heartbreak tends to last so long because of the way we understand our lives. We link our thoughts, ideas and understanding via causal relationships. Everything that makes us the person we are today is linked back to the person we once were, and linked to those experiences that caused us to change our course in life.

When your heart breaks, you’re not sure what to do with yourself because you don’t understand why the person you loved so much just walked out on you.

So you do the only thing you can do; you do your best to move on with your life. The problem, however, is you can’t stop thinking about the individual.

He or she was such an influential and important part of your life, and everything you do reminds you of him or her.

In addition, the two of you separating changed you into a completely different person.

You’re not as trusting as you once were.

You probably aren’t quite as optimistic and open to the idea of love. Now, it takes a lot more time for you to trust anyone new in your life — and this makes dating a bit more difficult.

While I believe every person in the world ultimately wants to be loved, sometimes you just crave the physical. Sometimes you want something superficial and meaningless, yet intense and satisfying. Sex doesn’t heal wounds, but it does take your mind off them.

Sooner or later, all the superficiality becomes mundane. Eventually, you decide to give love another shot. You know you still have a ton of baggage, but you’re willing to put an effort forward to find someone willing to help you unpack it.

You compare every new potential candidate to the one who got away.

And it hurts when you realize most people fall short. But what could you have possibly expected? You loved someone as much as you did because you believed him or her to be one-of-a-kind.

Finding someone else who’s even more awesome shouldn’t be easy. If it is, the one who broke your heart wasn’t worth your time.

The harder it is to find someone new to love, the more you realize your last love was almost the right match. The real difficulty comes with each new disappointment.

Every time you fail to find someone to love, the sadder you feel and the more likely you are to drag yourself back into the depths of the heartache.

If it sounds depressing, it’s because it is. This is the thing about love: If it isn’t carried along by pain, longing, or worry, it can’t be called love — at least not the romantic kind.

You’ll move on when you’re ready.

Often the love we had was far from the love we needed, so finding someone else to love isn’t incredibly difficult.

Unfortunately, there are also times when we find the right individual too early on and don’t realize it, missing the opportunity of a lifetime.

With enough time, even this sort of heartbreak numbs itself. The feelings you once had don’t disappear, but they also aren’t present either.

You do your best to be optimistic, and you keep reminding yourself there’s almost certainly always someone else out there for you — you just need to find him or her.

You’re floating in this sort of purgatory between wanting to crawl back into your ex’s arms and doing your best to find a new love of your life. It’s an interesting reality, filled with sadness and excitement, history and novelty.

In a world where anything is possible, you keep faith by believing you’ll find love again. Whether it be a past love or a new one, you know you’ll find happiness. And don’t stop searching until you do.

你有没有那一刻，抱着某人，感觉就像拥有了全世界。

本人啊，今年已经26 岁啦 （ 可能根本没人有兴趣吧 >_< )

跟普通人一样，做着发达的梦却打着一份与发达不相干的工。

这一生啊，除了玩都玩的比较出名厉害有奖之外其余人生技能毫无一个厉害之处。

唯有情史一大遍，玩乐故事一堆山。


你有没有那一刻，抱着某人，感觉就像拥有了全世界。

我还没抱着那个人，只靠想象都能知道拥有她，感觉就会像拥有了全世界。 这世界最残酷的就是可惜没如果，我认真的感情从不成功；多努力也好。女生没感觉就是没感觉，不管你多么的真心多么的努力依然是看不到你。 我可惜的是，永远努力的对象都是错误的对象。

 在错的时间遇上对的人，留下的只是回忆。
 在对的时间遇上错的人，剩下的也是回忆。

这两句根本就没有分别。对的时间遇上对的人呢？ 两情相悦，真心相爱。对我来说如同漫画，童话故事一般的虚幻。

我曾经爱累了；做过这个决定，找个爱我的人都不要找一个我爱的人。
只能说这个决定的答案是还是乖乖的找回一个你爱的人也爱你吧。天长地久的爱情不是靠经营，不是靠忍耐。靠的是爱，靠的是宠。
如果你认为，那个人爱你为你付出很多，你就能爱上她? 看到的只是内疚，惭愧自己的不好。你看到的是她对你太好了，你对她却无法像对你曾经爱过的人一样的好。

你不爱的，你不会去宠她，不会去关心她。你更加不会因为她进行潜意识的改变。随着时间的改变，你也会开始失去耐心并且会轻而易举的发脾气。

人生中谁不想找到一个真心值得爱的人。谁想当坏人，谁想做个花心的人。 花心的男人都是曾经很认真很认真很认真的爱过一个女人。伤透了男人的心，男人想的不是报复。而是想去看看那个花心的，对爱情不负责任的女人的世界是怎样的。想知道，那女人当时到底是怎样的心情对着自己这么傻傻爱着她的人。

这个夜深人静的夜晚，我对她的想念再次唤起。但已不能联络也不能再爱她了。因为我知道她的世界容不进我，也知道是不会再有可能进入她的世界了。

真心汉子经常被伤，负心汉却能逍遥快活。

我好想好想做回真心的自己，却每天过的很不快乐，很不堪。
想回还是做着负心汉时，好不快活好开心。却已厌倦了这种生活。

回头是岸的我，不仅对爱情失败了，也对友情失望了。想念当时为自己开心就好的我。

做回好人的第一个爱情就彻底输了。

我的名句 ：“不要为了一棵树而放弃整个森林。” ， “ 认真你就输了”

以前的我可以很潇洒的实行着两句真理。现在的我，回头了，到岸了。却再次掉入无底深涯，修复好的心再次破碎。

我很想放弃你，不想如此的痛了。我认真了，我错了。

爱上你；我不后悔。至少你的出现让我再次勇敢的付出我的真爱。

这个失败，我虽不懂几时才能再次爬起来，再次敢爱。但，我累了  真的非常非常的累了。

我依然爱你，但我会努力放下你。也答应了你；我会做回你认识的我；不再因你而改变我自己。